Some people are lucky to find their loved ones at an early stage in life, whereas many of us have to go through a long and hard journey to find the love of our lives. What makes a perfectly compatible partner? Or "the golden couple"? How would you know if your partner is the one who will stick by you for the rest of your life - your soul mate?
Some couples are meant to be together, but unfortunately, when the time comes, some are meant to be separated. Have you ever experienced love at first sight? Have you ever-laid eyes on a person and knew right away they were the one? Some people call it fate, others call it luck.
To us, it must be two single souls meeting again in this lifetime after living as a couple in a previous life. It must be two souls destined to be together.
The first chart belongs to a female, and refers to a day, which represents Ding-Fire, which is a Ying element. The second chart belongs to a male, and his element is Ren-Water, which is a Yang element. In Bazi, we always assume the female to be Ying and male to be Yang, which represents the original cosmic nature. The Ying represents the soft, gentle and receiving personality, whereas the Yang elements are hard, strong and giving - the complete opposite of its counterpart.
At first glance, both the male and female are born under the right elements of Ying and Yang. To analyse this further, in the bazi combinations of the 10 stems, the Ren Water and Ding Fire elements are a natural combination to form wood. This combination is a sentimental combination, and the wood element symbolises growth, evolution and loyalty. This is essential in a healthy relationship, in which both parties must grow together to keep the relationship happy and flourishing. Most importantly, the couple must be committed and faithful to each other to keep the relationship solid. The combination of the stem also represents the natural attraction to each other from the first encounter.
What strengthens the relationship is the combination of the animal signs, which is the Yang Fire represented by the horse sign and the Yin Earth represented by the goat. The combination between the horse and the goat is equivalent to the combination of the sun and the moon planet at a cosmic level. Such a combination between the top and the bottom of the chart is perfect for a couple, and to strengthen the relationship, the combination at the bottom of the Day chart is the strongest and most solid.
I don’t see this type of relationship often, as this is a perfect example of a happily married couple. This lady is lucky to find her soul mate. Why would I say that? It is not very common to have the wife's day elements in the same hour of the husband's chart.
The hour represents the mind and thoughts of the person in the bazi reading. It also represents the inspiration and governs the action of a person. The hour pillar influences our behavior and mindset. In the male's chart, the hour pillar represents the wife. As you can guess, this means that this man will constantly think about his wife, and will first consider her for every major decision he makes.
Most importantly this man's day pillar is sitting on his own wife's star sign - the horse. It is the purest star of all stars. And to this man, family is of the utmost importance in his life. However, this lucky lady will not have to worry about him being a "mommy’s boy", as that will never happen.
During the consultation, I informed this lady that she needn't worry about her husband's fidelity, as he would never cheat on her. Moreover, she would not have to drop hints about anniversaries or birthdays, as he would never forget. He would forget his own mother’s birthday before he would forget hers.
In a separate consultation - with the man, this time - I told him that he had found the perfect wife, and that the marriage would be nothing but blissful. Their marriage is as solid as rock. Why would I say that? As I mentioned earlier, this lucky man sits on his own wife's star, and the wife's elements represent Ding fire. His wife's natural personality is gentle, fun, easygoing, accommodating and loving. This is essential for a lady if she wants to attract men in her life.
So could I say this man struck the lottery in finding this woman to be his wife?
Wouldn't you, like this lucky lady, want to find a loyal husband who would prioritize you always?
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